My Brother-in-law's Wedding

11th September, 2011

Today is a big day for our family. My hubby's youngest brother is getting married today. My parents-in-law have been quite busy lately preparing for the marriage. Finally, their youngest son is getting married now. I think most parents wish that their children can find their own happiness. I wonder after 25 years later, how I will feel when my sons are getting married. 

We are getting busy for the whole day too. As my hubby said he and his friends also join as "兄弟" for the fetching the bride ceremony. So early in the morning, all of us wake up early, even Kelven and Kelson too, go for the ceremony too. But me, Kelven and Kelson are only waiting in the car. Because on this day, according to chinese superstitious, people who were born on pig year, couldn't see the bride going into the house. 

While waiting in the car

After the fetching bride ceremony, we go straightaway to their own new house. Of course there is fire crackers for inviting the coming of the bride and all that. The rest of the process, I am not really participating as I am busy taking care of my Kelson. Only managed to take some photos at their house. 


Some snapshots at their new house
The Bride and the Bridegroom
After that, all of us go to my house for the worship "拜神" and tea ceremony "敬茶仪式". Then all of them are having lunch at my house too. Some photos taken at my house.



Kelven busy playing games with his cousins




During the tea ceremony

Kelson is excited seeing lots of people in the house

Our family photo
We have some time to rest in the afternoon before the wedding dinner. But it is still a rush for us for the preparation. Of course I need more time to make up. Haha.....further Kelven is going to be the "花童" during the wedding. So he has been to the hair stylist to do his hair. This is the first time Kelven being the "花童". We have also arranged a special way of bringing the bride and bridegroom in. Since Mid Autumn Festival is on tomorrow, so we have let Kelven and Chloe wearing the traditional chinese wear and carrying the lantern all the way to the stage. Some photos taken at the wedding dinner. 

Before the entry



Walking in, all the way to the stage, bringing the bride and bridegroom in


On the stage


See how cute they are together
Well, during the dinner, Kelson has been sleeping all the way from the starting from the first dishes till the end of the dishes. So I have been carrying him in my arms during the dinner. We have also taken some photos during the dinner.





Before the dinner




Three of us, Kelven has been sitting at another table with his auntie

Eating chocolate

Cute 花童

Me and Alice Moi (She is my father's cousin, which means is my 堂姑)


Kelson is sleeping in my arms, see his butt, CUTE!
In the end of the dinner, we have to wait till everyone has left then we got the chances to take family photos at the stage. Some photos taken after the dinner.


See how happy the kids are



Our Whole Family Photo




Our family photo


Swimming Day 3

29th August, 2011
Kelven is having a week school holiday for Hari Raya. So he has planned to have a swimming day during this holiday. Invited his cousins to come over but in the end only one came. Even Kelson joined in the pool too. Quite surprise that Kelson is not afraid of cold. See how happy and enjoyable they are.













Kelven's New Bicycle

22nd August, 2011
Kelven has got a new bicycle today. His old bicycle is getting small for him and getting rusted too. So his daddy bought a new bicycle for him. He is so happy today. 





Kelson 5 - 6 months

My Kelson is 6 months old now. Couldn't believe that how fast the time goes and I have been taking care of him by myself for this six months. Well, he is now an expert in rolling and he could do it in seconds too. Recently, he enjoy sitting and standing too. He is also started to learn crawling. You will see him moving his butt high up, intending to move forward by pushing his both legs but unsuccessful. He only managed to crawl backwards. I am now feeding him porridge everyday, at least 2 meals a day. I could say that my baby is really interested in food. No matter what you eat, he will also want to have a taste of it. He will shout for your attention, just to get a taste! Hahaha.....He could even sip water from the straw! Anything connected with food, he will have no problem eating or drinking it. I guess maybe when I was pregnant, I used to watch the Asian Food Channel everyday. Watching how delicious the food is. Oh yeah, and I am quite interested in baking stuff during my pregnancy, maybe this is also one of the factor. He is now quite talkative, you will hear him saying "dadadadada" all the way. Sometimes, you will be quite surprised hearing him say words like "mama or papa" accidentally. I don't think he really call us but coincidently, he pronounced the word correctly. I guess he is also as talkative as his big brother too. He is now 9kg+ and everytime we carry him out for shopping or going out for a walk, there must be some strangers came saying how cute he is and wanna pinch his face. I have to use the baby carrier or the baby sling if we wanna go out for shopping. Another big changes is he doesn't sleep in the sarong anymore during the daytime and sleeps on the bed whole day. This is one of the achievement I had for training him. Haha..... Actually we found out that kids sleeping in sarong is not really convenient. I remembered when Kelven was a baby, we have to rush back home just to let him sleep in his sarong. So now it is quite convenient for us to bring Kelson out, because he can sleeps anywhere when he is tired.













Kelven at the same age as Kelson


























Tadika Miri Gospel Chapel

Thanks for the feedback from a reader of my blog. Therefore, I will give some feedback and comment on this kindergarten that my Kelven is studying in. 

I remember 3 years ago, we were having hard decision to choose the right school for our Kelven. We have been asking around from friends, which kindergarten is the best for their kids. We have been suggested a few such as Krokop Kindergarten, Tai Poo Kindergarten, Sri Indah Kindergarten and more. 
My hubby and I have the same thinking, no matter which school you study, it is more or less the same. The most important thing is whether your child is willing to study and learn from the school. In the end, we have chosen Tadika Miri Gospel Chapel due to several reasons and until now, we have not regretted chosen this right school for Kelven.

We are actually not Christian but we are still choosing a Christian school for our Kelven. We believe that by going to a Christian school, Kelven's bad tempered can be controlled. I wouldn't say it is fully controlled now but at least it is getting better than before. Further, I have heard quite a lot of good feedback from friends about this kindergarten. My sister-in-law and my hubby's friend has also enrolled their kids in this school.  So in the end, we do the same.  


There are 2 classes for Level 1, 2 classes for Level 2, and 3 classes for Level 3 students. Level 1 are divided to Dolphin class and Starfish class. Kelven was in Dolphin class for the first year. Level 2 and Level 3 are divided by colors. There are Yellow, Green, Red, Orange and Purple class. My Kelven was in Yellow class in Level 2 and Purple class now. There are only morning classes but working parents can choose to let their child to stay at the school in the afternoon. They will be taken care by some teachers, having their lunch, bathing and sleeping. After that, doing their homework before it is time for their parents to fetch them. My Kelven did not join the afternoon class but he is following a teacher from the school to the teacher's house for tuition in the afternoon. Doing the same thing, just as the school did.

The principal of this school is nice, caring and friendly. She can even remember all the students' name by heart. The teachers are all responsible, caring and friendly too. No matter what problem you have, you can just asked the help of the teachers and they are all willing to help. All the kids are fond of their teachers. Even my Kelven too. He can even know all the names of the teachers in school eventhough the teachers didn't teach him before. There are mixture of different races of students in school, mostly chinese and bumiputera. But they have no problem in communicating with each other. They are all communicating in chinese, even the bumiputeras too. So you wouldn't be surprised that one day your child can even speak some of the bumiputera language too. 

As for the teaching materials, it is more or less the same in any other kindergarten. Only that they have one more subject to learn, which is Bible knowledge. They are now introducing the UK English to the students. There are interactive learning system in their English subject. They are also having computer learning once a week. All subjects are emphasizing on listening, speaking, reading, and writing skills. The teachers will monitor carefully on each student's progress and improvement in those skills and make a remark on the report card. 

The school will also bring the students for at least two educational trips to certain place in a year.  It can be the Public Library, Muzium Petroleum, Crocodile Farm, Miri Park, Banks, and lots of other places. The students will have the chances to enjoy outdoors learning. The teachers are doing a great job in handling the kids in group, so we are quite rest assured that our Kelven is safe with their teachers. Every time after the trip, Kelven will be overexcited to tell me what he has learnt from the trip. 

Every year, the school will held different type of events for the students to participate. There will be Sport Day, Family Day, Children Day and more. They will also make a small celebration in class before the coming of certain celebration, such as Chinese New Year, MoonCake Festival, and more. All this events and celebration are my Kelven's favourite. He will normally wake up pretty early on those days. 


The school will also held different types of competition every year. For Level 1 and Level 2, there will be Rhyme Recitation Competition, in English and Chinese. While Level 3 will be having Story Telling Competition, in English and Chinese too. They will also having Writing Skill Competition in English and Chinese, whereas they will be giving marks according to the students handwriting. They even have Singing Competition, Fancy Dress Competition, Photos Contest and more. So the students will have the chances to perform their talent not only in the academic. My Kelven is quite active in these competition as it is his strength to speak especially in public but not in singing.


Every end of the year, the school will held 文艺晚会 either at the Church or at the Dewan Suarah. The students are given the opportunity to perform their dancing skills and singing skills on the said night. Of course prior practices are needed before the night. But it is really worth it when you see your kids perform on the stage. Seeing their cute faces and action will makes your day brighter for the day. Too bad, my Kelven wasn't involved in this event for last 2 years. As he is quite shy to dance and perform dancing on stage. 

Lastly, the school will normally held the Graduation Ceremony especially for the Level 3 students. The Level 1 and Level 2 students will also be there for prize giving ceremony. In this day, the students will also perform dancing and singing as entertainment to the parents and teachers. In this day, the school will summarized what they have done in that year. Letting you know what your kids have done and learnt at school. 


Overall, I am quite happy with the school as my Kelven has really learnt a lot from the school not only in academic but also in different aspect of morale value. He has become more brave and matured. I remembered when he has first started going to the school, he has been very shy, refusing to go to school, and crying everyday. But now after three years in the school, he has started to be independent and he is also now hoping that he wouldn't leaving the school soon. 


I hope with my feedback and comments will help a lot to those who are interested about this school. Lastly, I will still give a thumbs up to Tadika Miri Gospel Chapel!

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